Ken McLeod:
Sensual pleasures are like salty water: The deeper you drink, the thirstier you become. Any object that you attach to, right away let it go—this is the practice of a bodhisattva.
Dalai Lama:
The nature of sense pleasures is like that of saltwater: The more we drink, the more our thirst increases. To abandon the objects towards which desire arises is a practice of the bodhisattva.
Good food, good sex and beautiful fabrics are wonderful, but when they become so important that we crave them, we’re in trouble. The experiences pass, and we can’t “get them back, duplicate them, make them happen again.” Do you know that song by Sade? “It’s never as good as the 1st time…” Pretty much that’s the truth.
And, we can’t disavow sensual pleasures either. That kind of ascetism is just as harmful, and just as addictive. It’s not the answer to our suffering.
The Buddha said that the middle way is the answer. Enjoy the wonderful things in life without thinking they’ll always be the same, that they’ll always satisfy us, or cure the suffering we feel. We will be full for a moment, but our hunger will return. “More” is not the answer.
The suffering of craving is in the mind… Obsession is in the mind. So this verse says, Any object that you attach to, right away let it go!
His Holiness the 17th Karmapa briefly discussed interdependence, one of his favorite topics … He said, “Living in this world of the 21st century, which we’ve come to call the information era, we are able to see more than ever before how each and every one of us is interconnected with each other. The intimate and deep connection between every person and place has become more evident than it ever was, due to our technology, social media, and so forth. This enables us to see clearly how much of an effect we have on one another, and how we all rely on each other…. Each person is not really independent because our happiness and suffering depend on the happiness and suffering of others.”
